No one ever told me that adulting, was a lot of pretending. There are so many moments where I think to myself, wait am I actually allowed to be this much of an adult? I work a full time job, go to school, am in a steady long term relationship, have a nice little apartment, [...]
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It’s always the best friend
So I'm in a committed relationship. I know I know, me? Of all people in the world has committed to someone. It's kind of shocking and sometimes I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop just because we all know my luck with relationships is mediocre at best but so far I seem to be [...]
Monogamy
The one thing I've always thought was that you grow up to meet a man who loves you with all his heart and you treat him like a king and he treats you like a queen and you both live happily ever after... I always thought that happy endings were real and we found our [...]
It’s my time… mine.
My biggest issue has always been that I am extremely selfish with my time. I am, giving with money and with help and I am someone who you can always count on but my time is mine and how I spend my time is something that I am extremely territorial over. I'm 22 and compromising [...]
It’s February so I had to post about Valentine’s Day
I can feel valentine’s day approaching and it’s making me itch for someone to show up at my office with a dozen roses and a giant teddy bear. Sometimes we women crave attention, and by sometimes I mean all the time. We’re needy, I know I am and I’m not denying that I am needy. [...]
2017 a new year, for a few new beginnings
I grew a lot as a person in 2016. At the end of 2015 I got a job with a law firm that I currently still work for today, I have been promoted and raised in salary. I found a field and a group of people that I really enjoy spending about 40 hours a [...]
Be better than the two week bail period
I love being independent. My favorite thing in the world is that my lifestyle doesn’t depend on a guy but, that doesn’t mean that a girl doesn’t crave a little romance from time to time. Why shouldn’t you be able to have both? I am a woman who works, supports herself and doesn’t need a [...]
Hitting the pole, Not literally, well kind of…
You’ve all read about my Magic Mike experiences and maybe it’s been a while since I’ve talked about the club or the guys but that’s just too much unstable drama for one girl’s blog to handle. So we’ll just leave out all those messy details. But yes I still talk to a few and no [...]
Manhattan is knocking
The city that never sleeps has been my city for as long as I could remember. When I was 11 my dad took me to New York for the first time. We stayed in Manhattan and saw the lighting ceremony of the tree in Rockefeller center and I got a taste of the most magical place [...]
People Always Leave
People come and go this is a term of life I have found comfort and familiarity with. Not everyone sticks around and according to the early years of Payton Sawyer, "People always leave." Maybe there's some truth there, friendships you thought would last a life time slowly derail and sometimes blood isn't enough to keep [...]
Ho Ho Ho The slay bells are ringing, well almost…kinda
It’s September and I can taste the Halloween air followed by pumpkin pie and Christmas joy. Yes I am aware it is still a month away for Halloween time... October 1st through about February or whenever the slight cold winter breeze that south Florida gives us is my favorite time of the year. I love [...]
You’ve been Gilmored
So it’s almost November, I mean if you ignore September and October, but either way the Gilmore girls revival is literally right there. I could almost envision Lorelei’s witty banter and Rory’s smart well thought out commentary, and not just because I have watched every episode at least five times. Not to mention they signed [...]